Are you wondering if you can use the law of attraction to manifest a boyfriend? Well, I’ve got some excellent news for you.
Not only is it doable, but it can be done by anyone.
As long your as you have the determination and conviction, it can be done.
To go through life with a man you truly love is one of the best experiences anyone can have.
Yet for many, it can be difficult to meet the right person.
Maybe it’s circumstances, maybe the timing isn’t right, or maybe the person you like is already taken.
It doesn’t matter though, any obstacle that’s preventing you from meeting that special man can be overcomed by the universe.
Through the law of attraction, not only can you manifest a boyfriend, but you can manifest the man of your dreams.
The man who’s meant to be your soul mate and best friend in life.
The law of attraction and relationships
The law of attraction is always in motion, and though you may not be aware of it, not a second goes by when you are not manifesting.
Does this mean that you need to monitor your every thought and emotion? Absolutely not, for doing so is not only ineffective but downright impossible.
Yet the relationships in your life reflect your inner state and are ultimately determined by it, and if you want to manifest a boyfriend, you have to make sure that you’re in the right state of vibration.
So what should you do then?
Simple, you simply need to make a conscious effort to focus on the right emotions and feelings, while doing your best to avoid the negative ones.
The idea is to steer your mind and consciousness in the direction of love and joy.
When it comes to goals such as manifesting boyfriends, lovers, husbands, etc. You should always focus on filling your life with the emotions associated with happiness and love while avoiding those such as neediness and desperation.
To put it simply, the more joy, laughter, and happiness that you’re able to feel in your life now even though you haven’t manifested your boyfriend yet, the easier and faster the whole process will be.
Step 1: Figure Out Why You Want To Manifest a Boyfriend.
Now the very first thing you need to do is to figure out exactly why you want a boyfriend.
Most people in the world would naturally want a serious partner at some point in their lives but everyone has different reasons.
Even if you think you alreayd know the reasons, spend some time to sit down and ask yourself why and the answers might surprise you.
Is it because you are lonely and would like someone to spend your life with?
Or maybe you just want someone for some stability and comfort.
In the eyes of the universe, all reasons are valid.
Find out your reasons and believe in them wholeheartedly.
Step 2: Visualize Your Boyfriend
When visualizing, picture exactly what you’d want him to be like.
His appearance, his height, the clothes he’s wearing, his lifestyle.
Visualize the way he talks to you, the way he expresses his personality..
To give your visualizations an added kick, try to visualize the entire story playing out.
Visualize yourself meeting this dream boyfriend of yours and getting lost in conversation and laughter.
Feel the chemistry, feel the laughter you’d share. Feel the sense of closeness and warmth.
Feel free to add any detail you can think of.
Visualization is so powerful because it engages the subconscious part of the mind, which is a thousand times more powerful than our conscious minds.
When you fill the subconscious with visions of what you want, the universe has no choice but to respond and reflect those visions in your life.
The more personal you make your visualizations, the better.
So let go and let your fantasies go wild.
Step 3: Acknowledge and let go of any limiting beliefs
Our beliefs determine our potential to manifest. If you want to attract the boyfriend that you want and deserve, you need to find out if you have any limiting beliefs holding you back from manifesting.
Limiting beliefs originate mainly from negative past experiences and the subsequent negative mental chatter that follows.
In my experience, the best way to rid yourself of negative beliefs is to make peace with any bad past experiences that you may have had.
Limiting beliefs come in all forms, some common ones are:
I’ll never meet anyone
I’m not lucky in love
I need someone to make me happy
You need to be happy by yourself
As best as you can, enjoy and make the most out of your single life.
Remember, like attracts like. When you are already able to feel the feelings of completion, happiness, and connection by yourself, you’ll create conditions that are much more suitable for attracting a lover.
This means that if you’re not already doing so, spend happy and fun times with the people around you such as your friends and family, and enjoy yourself to the best of your ability.
Step 4: Use affirmations
Using affirmations is an excellent way to instill positive beliefs into your psyche and raise your vibrational frequency.
Both of which are factors that are essential for manifesting the love that you want.
Some affirmations that are excellent for this purpose include:
- I am worthy to receive love.
- I love myself and am open to receiving love.
- My boyfriend is entering my life in this moment.
- I am open to receiving love.
- I am positive, happy and open.
These are some examples of properly made affirmations, but feel free to create your own affirmations.
Keep in mind, however, that the most powerful affirmations are stated in the present tense and are always positive.
This means that even though you haven’t manifested a boyfriend yet, you should phrase your affirmations as if you already have.
Step 5: Let Go And Trust the Universe
The final step would be to let go and let the universe take care of it.
To manifest the boyfriend you want, you must place your trust completely in the universe and just let go.
All the people I’ve coached throughout the years, they’ve all met the love of their lives when they were least expecting.
Especially when it comes to matters of love, it always, always comes when you’re not looking. As cliché as that sounds.
Therefore, once you’ve clearly stated your intent to the universe, once you’re all set in your practice of visualizing and reciting affirmations, the next and most important thing you need to do is to let go and trust the universe.
The universe is always working towards bringing you what you ask it for. Manifestation is always in motion.
To think about your goal excessively, whatever you’re trying to manifest, will only create obstacles and slow down the entire process.
Follow these 5 steps and you’ll easily be able to manifest not just a boyfriend, but the boyfriend of your dreams. The man that you’ve always wanted to be with.