As a man, one of the greatest joys in life is to have a girlfriend who you love and who loves you truly.
With that special woman by your side, the days are brighter, food tastes better and everything in life is lovelier.
If you’ve ever wondered whether you can use the law of attraction to manifest a girlfriend, you’d be glad to know that not only is it doable, but it’s also pretty easy.
And all it takes is a little bit of effort and a lot of consistency.
In fact, it’s one of the most common manifestation goals around. Many people I know, including myself, have a wonderful girlfriend in their lives mainly due to the law of attraction.
And with the law of attraction, you’ll get not just a girlfriend, but a girlfriend who would be everything you’ve ever wanted in a woman.
That is the power of the universe.
In this article, I’m going to show you how you can manifest a girlfriend in 5 simple and effective steps.
Follow these steps and guidelines consistently with dedication and in no time at all, you’ll get exactly what you want.
Step 1: Know Exactly Why You Want a Girlfriend
Now the very first thing that you want is to ask yourself is exactly why you want a girlfriend.
Maybe it’s because you want somebody to accompany you through life, or maybe you’ve never been in a romantic relationship before and want to know what it feels like.
Whatever your reasons may be, it’s important that you know what they are.
I suggest taking some time to think about it thoroughly and writing these reasons down.
The universe responds very strongly to direction and intentions, which makes this step very important.
Essentially, the clearer you are about why you wish to have a girlfriend, the easier it’ll be to manifest one.
If you know the motivation behind your wishes and desires, then pretty much 50% of the battle is won.
Keep in mind that there are no right or wrong reasons. Your reasons are your own and you alone know exactly what’s best for you.
So, when writing these reasons down, be as honest to yourself as you can be. Hold nothing back and just express yourself fully.
Once you’ve done that, keep the piece of paper where you’ve written down your reasons somewhere safe and look at it whenever you need motivation.
Step 2: Know How You Want Your Girlfriend To Be Like
Having an idea of what you want your girlfriend to be like is extremely important if you hope to manifest her into your life.
You need to have a clear idea about what the woman in your life is going to be like. Will she be a giving person? Will she be an extrovert or an introvert?
Ask yourself all these questions and make sure you know the answer to them.
Go into as much detail as possible. Don’t hesitate to tell the universe exactly how you want her to be like, in terms of her appearance, her character, her preferences, hobbies, and the list goes on.
While she likely won’t be exactly the way you envision her to be.
The universe will provide someone close to what you’ve specified and very often, even better than what you ask for.
One thing is for sure, is that if you have a clear idea of how you want her to be like, the universe will send someone who’ll definitely make you happy.
Step 3: Stop Worrying. Let the Universe take care of it
If your current circumstances are such that it’s hard to meet a girlfriend, then naturally you’d be inclined to worry about how the universe is going to bring her to you.
Yet you must resist the urge to worry about it and never let yourself fall into despair for any reason.
Stressing and worrying about how you’re going to meet your future girlfriend is counterproductive and only interrupts the manifestation process.
Instead, the best thing you can do is to realize that the universe is infinitely abundant and no matter how bleak your circumstances may appear right now, it’ll provide you with a way.
You have to know this with full faith and belief. However cheesy it may sound, believe that everything will be alright, and it’ll be.
With all that being said, however, don’t hesitate to take inspired action when the situation arises.
For example, if you’ve met the girl that you want to be your girlfriend, you’ll still need to text her or ask her out and talk to her.
But when you do so, everything will feel natural and effortless as the actions you take would essentially be the universe working its magic through you.
Taking action this way is what we call inspired action, and this sort of action is one of the best ways to really speed up manifestation.
Step 4: Positive Affirmations
Affirmations work excellently for the purpose of manifesting or attracting a girlfriend.
It’s true, a lot of people have used affirmations without much success and tend to write them off as ineffective.
What they don’t understand is that affirmations aren’t meant to be used as a standalone technique. Rather they’re meant to be used to complement the act of manifestation as a whole.
When paired with other aspects of manifestation such as visualization, having clear and definite reasons and intentions, as well as having the right vibrations, affirmations are extremely powerful.
Here are a couple of affirmations that work excellently for the purpose of attracting a girlfriend.
Simply recite them whenever you’re free. The more often you do so, the more your mental state will shift towards the vibration of love and abundance.
Until eventually, manifesting your dream girl is pretty much guaranteed.
- I am complete and happy as I am. I accept myself completely and wholeheartedly.
- I am living a happy life with my girlfriend.
- I have a wonderful and amazing relationship.
- Me and my girlfriend complement each other in every way.
- I am attracting my dream girl right now, in this very moment.
- My girlfriend is walking into my life.
- I am lovable and deserve to be loved.
- My heart is open to receiving love.
- I release all pain from the past and forgive those who’ve wronged me.
- The universe is bringing me my perfect match.
As you recite these affirmations, imagine how good it’d feel to have your girlfriend in your arms. Pretend that your imagination is real for a minute and just bask in the feeling of being loved and in love.
Step 5: Eliminate Limiting Beliefs and Self Talk
If you’ve been wanting a girlfriend for a while but haven’t been able to successfully get one, it’s easy for limiting beliefs and the habit of negative self-talk to develop.
Yet if you hope to use the law of attraction to manifest a girlfriend, it is essential that you rid yourself of these beliefs.
And the very first step towards doing that is to simply be aware of what they are.
It is also extremely important that you do not engage in any form of self-pity and wallowing. Many years ago, when I was single and much younger, I often despaired at the thought of dying alone and spent many lonely nights wallowing in self-pity.
If you want to be able to attract a girlfriend, you need to give these habits up. There’s no way around it.
Learn to accept being single now, you don’t have to like it, but make peace with it and accept it.
Once you do that, you’ll stop mentally blocking yourself from receiving the universe.
Simply by being aware of whatever limiting beliefs and habits you may have, you’ll be able to stop their negative effects by 50%.
However, whenever you catch yourself thinking thoughts that stem from these beliefs, simply be aware of what’s going on, stop thinking about them and finally let go.
This simple technique alone will be enough to negate the effects of any limiting beliefs allowing the universe’s abundance to flow to you uninterrupted.
So, there you have it guys, if you’re looking to use the law of attraction to manifest a girlfriend then simply follow the guidelines above and everything else will fall into place.